5 Signs That Your Wealthy Man Will Ask You To Marry Him

Every woman wants to get married eventually and of course they dream about that special day. You can be in a relationship with a rich man for a couple of months to years and never know when he will pop the question to you. There are definitely signs a man gives off when he is ready to make his girlfriend his wife. If you notice these signs, don’t pressure him to be giving you that ring sooner than he is planning too. Don’t ruin the moment for him as it is a huge step for him as well. Here are the 5 Signs That Your Wealthy Man Will Ask You To Marry Him:

1. He lets you know that you are “the one” and that you are the only one for him. He is making it clear to you that he sees a future with you. This is an amazing thing for a woman to know.

2. He wants you to move in with him and share his entire home with you. He knows that you will value his home and he wants you to be comfortable in it. He isn’t hiding anything from you and this shows by him giving you the keys to his home and allowing you to move your things in.

3. He wants to open a joint bank account with you. This shows you that he truly sees a future with you and is willing to share his money with you too. He knows that this type of trust is only for the one.

4. He invites you to all of the family functions. You are never left out and you are always welcomed at his family homes. All of the holiday dinners and events he brings you and includes in conversations with his family. He is letting you know that his family is now your family.

5. He talks and shares with you. If he confides in you about his problems regarding work and such it shows that he trusts you. He views you as an equal and feels that you make him want to do better in work when things go south as he wants to support you. Plus, your support and advice about his work problems lets him know that you are on his team.

Remember, when a man is ready to get married he will ask you. Do not put pressure on him to do it when you want it. It has to be done at the right moment. When the day comes as he asks for your hand in marriage just give a big, sweet kiss.

First date with an independently wealthy man

Prior to your first date with an independently wealthy man, you should feel confident that you are not wasting time or energy meeting with a (potential) pretender. The addage “I shaved my legs for this?” comes to mind.

Here is some advice from a man who grew-up with money and continues to make money today.

Filtering out the pretenders from the contenders can be a bit tricky. Plus, you don’t want to offend anyone right off the bat by asking for a copy of financial statements. So does a woman screen candidates even before the first date?

There are a number of questions that you can raise during an initial conversation that sound casual and non-threatening, but can do a lot to open a man’s true character.

Remember, the presentation is as important as the sunstance here. There are a number of casual questions that a man should be happy (if not proud) to answer, which will tell allow you to ease into the substantive questions that will usually expose the pretenders.

The good lead-in questions should allow a man to “talk about himself” in a positive way. For example, asking simple questions like “where did you go to college?” “were you in a fraternity?” “did you play sports or on the chess team?” will allow the guy to start thinking about his youthful “glory days” which he should be happy to discuss. If he came from money, I can promise you he went to a good college, was in a fraternity, and had to involved in either a sports activity or a nerdy activity like chess club. By addressing these questions, you can determine if the guy “grew up” with money. These are the best guys to land because people who grew up with money always believe the money will be there. They don’t know any other way of life. And since they believe the money will always be there, that should be an indication that they are secure in what they are doing.

However, there are plenty of men who have “new money” and had to earn their wealth from nothing. These men may not have gone to college or probably could not afford to be in a fraternity. But even this group was either active in sports or, once again, played on the chess team. Get them to talk about that.

Eventually you want to ask them questions like “to what do attribute your success?” or “which is better have, a hard work ethic or good luck?” Regardless of how they answer you might kick in the comment “is it true that the harder you work the luckier you get?” to lighten the conversation.

After you have laid a groundwork such as what I have outlined above, the next questions will say a lot about the person. The key topics are investments and charities. That is what you are leading up to in a soft casual way.

All men of substance have their “ideas” about what a good investment is and have their favorite charities. So lead into a question like “so where is a successful man like you investing your money these days?” He should answer with stocks, bonds, real estate or gold. It really does not matter which one he picks so long as he identifies an investment that he likes. Now is the time to listen carefully. Let there be a long pregnant pause after he answers. If he says “I am hedging with equities and bonds” or anything really, that’s a good start but say nothing in response. Make him fill the void with more information. If he is a pretender, he will get nervous and say that he is not actively investing or that he has all of his money in cash or that he let’s someone else do it for him. Bologna. That’s a bad sign. But if he fills the void but providing a lot of boring detail that he is looking into an investment into real estate investment trusts, blah, blah, blah, that’s great. That’s a sign that the man is a contender, and understands (or believes he understands) money. A pretender won’t know what to say and will stumble or skillfully change the topic. You can end this line of questions by asking if he thinks Apple is a good investment. He’ll say yes or no, but regardless, you can feel that you have an idea whether or not he actually has money by how he views his current investments.

The final line of questions have to do with charitable investments. All wealthy men will have a pet charity that they will contribute to. It could be his Church. It could be his Alumni Association. It could be Save the Dolphins. Again, it doesn’t matter where he makes contributions. What matters is that he is making charitable donations. If he isn’t, that’s a very bad sign.

Once again, your lead into this arena should be careful. You might say that you are a very giving person and ware thinking about making a small charitable contribution “to give something back” to society and ask if he has any recommendations on where you should donate. Aha!! You express that you are kind and giving person and now you get to find out a key piece of insight about him. He should say directly that he is donating to his Church or to a specific entity. If he cracks a joke like “I believe charity begins at home — my home” then that’s a red flag for you right there. But if he says, “This year I’ve decided to help out the SPCA” or whatever — that’s a great sign. If he says “I’m still thinking about it” ask him where he has donated in the past. Don’t let him off the hook here. Emphasize that you really want to “give back” to society a little of your blessings and seek his advice — if he can’t give you any this is a very bad sign.

So there you go — that’s my first date screening advice that will, I hope, help you beautiful ladies sort out the pretenders from the contenders.

5 Signs That You Have A Healthy Relationship

Being a wealthy man can sometimes make dating difficult and stressful as you do not know which females really want to date you or use you for money. At the end of the day, everyone wants to have a healthy, lasting relationship, but not everyone knows what it takes to achieve this. It takes a good understanding of certain elements that can change a relationship and bring you to a higher level of happiness. Here are 5 Signs That You Have A Healthy Relationship:

1. Appreciation of one another.

In the relationship there needs to be an existence of a mutual appreciation for one another. If you exchange compliments and praise each other along with coming up with new and creative ways to show you care, then your relationship will be moving along in the right direction.

2. Give and take with your interests.

Everyone has their own interests or hobbies. In order to have a healthy relationship, you need to accept these interests and show your partner that you support them to the fullest. Let them know that you don’t want to hinder them in any way. Also, there needs to be a give and take with your time so that each can focus on their interest.

3. Is there a healthy sex life?

A big part of making a relationship work is having a healthy sex life. In order to make this work, you both need to be okay with how often, the style and where you have sex. Plus, you both need to be involved equally. Also, you need to have open communication on the subject and don’t feel embarrassed to speak about sexual desires or adjustment in your current sex life.

4. There is mutual trust.

In a healthy relationship there must be trust. Both need to feel a sense of safety and security in the relationship and also know that they can count on one another to be there physically and emotionally when needed.

5. There is true happiness.

One of the biggest parts of having a healthy relationship is to make sure you and your partner are truly happy. There is no point to the relationship if either one or both of you are faking your way through it all and just pretending. You need to be happy and have fun together.

Making sure that these elements exist in your relationship is a good start to having a healthy relationship and keeping it that way.

MILLIONAIRE DATING WEBSITES

If you have considered going to a dating website to find yourself a wealthy man, consider this first:

THE ODDS ARE GOOD THAT THE GOODS ARE ODD

Good looking men with money don’t usually have a hard time finding women to date.  As a result, they certainly aren’t going to need, much less pay someone to find a woman for them.

But there are also lots of millionaires who are busy making money and don’t have the time or inclination to go looking for a date. It is much easier to page through the profiles of dozens of beautiful women and pick out the ones they like than to hang out in bars hoping to find a woman.

If you’re lucky, you’ll meet one of those busy millionaires if you sign up at a “millionaires only” web dating service. If you’re unlucky, you’ll end up with the wealthy men who can’t get dates any other way.

Why can’t a millionaire easily get a date?

If a wealthy man can’t get a date it’s usually because there is something wrong with him, which is why he ends up at a dating website. But these online matchmakers also know something that no one likes to talk about…that a man with money will eventually get a woman no matter what his faults are, as long as she knows he has money. Which is why a dating website that advertises “millionaire bachelors” will always attract women, even if the guys are a bit flawed.

Be aware then, that a dating website catering to “millionaires” might have some or all of the following clientele:

1. Men who have something physically, socially, or mentally wrong with them
2. Married men
3. Men who aren’t rich

Men who have physical, social or mental problemsMen who have trouble getting dates might have unappealing characteristics. You have to ask yourself, “How much am I willing to tolerate in order to be around wealth?” Are you willing to date men who are:

• Physically unattractive
• Handicapped or crippled
• Hygienically unclean
• Into extreme fetishes or compulsions
• HIV positive or have herpes
• Mean or controlling
• 70, 80, or 90 (They don’t call it “Sugar Daddies” for nothing.)
• Sick
• Socially inept
• Mentally unstable
• Want submissive women

Lots of men looking for partners are married.

If you have no moral issues with dating married men and think it doesn’t matter as long as he is rich, you must be prepared to be a temporary toy in his life. The fun is over when:

• He gets bored
• His wife finds out
• You become demanding
• You get tired of spending most of your time alone
• You frequently have to drop any plans you had for a last minute rendezvous with him
• It’s not as exciting as you thought it would be

Life with a married man is not all fun and games.  He is often not available, but he expects you to be ready and waiting when he does have time for you.

He plans on spending the holidays with his family and may not have time to get away to see you, but don’t think of flying home to see your family.  He wants you available “just in case.” Many a lonely night will be spend waiting “just in case.”

If you don’t like it, just remember: his money, his rules.

You’re making a mistake if you believe he’s going to leave his wife for you.

Married men who secretly date other women rarely leave their wives. If they were going to do it, they would have done it already, so they wouldn’t have to sneak around. No matter how many times he tells you he loves you, and that you just have to be patient and give him some time, he isn’t going to leave his wife. You will discover too late that there will never be a good time for him to leave her.

He will have dozens of excuses:

• Wait until the kids are out of the house
• Wait until his finances are in order, so he doesn’t have to give her half of his fortune
• Wait until his sick wife is feeling better

Wait, wait, wait. On and on the excuses will come.

Don’t start with a married man and you won’t have to regret ending it. Remember, the more of your youthful years you give to a married man, the fewer years remain to find someone that is yours.

Are you thinking that dating a rich man would be worth it, even if you eventually break up? You may have acquired a few expensive things, but you are older, have a reputation for dating married men and for being a gold digger, who is willing to put up with anything for money. I can’t imagine any scenario where that is a good idea.

Unless he is putting thousands of dollars in an account for you to get yourself out of town and start over somewhere else, it is not worth the risk. You certainly aren’t going to easily find another rich man. Rich men don’t usually like dating other rich men’s discarded goods, especially women with negative reputations.

He could be lying about his wealth

If you have the looks and the stomach for unusual men, you still have to deal with the fact that many of the men who sign up with dating websites and matchmaking services, may not be wealthy.

Remember the show, “Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire?” The lucky girl who won couldn’t stomach the guy for even their short “honeymoon.”  They slept in separate rooms and she annulled the marriage as soon as she got back to town.  Apparently his million wasn’t enough to entice her to stick around.

Even if the dating service claims to check out the background of the men who apply, IRS forms can be faked as well as bank statements and paychecks. In other words, there is no guarantee that he is who he says he is.

How much money makes a man “wealthy?”
Do you want a guy with a private jet who has homes in several countries, or will you settle for someone who has a great job, a house and vacations in wonderful places? Do you want your jewelry from Tiffany’s and Cartier or will diamonds from the local jeweler suffice?

For some women, a wealthy man is anyone who has a job and isn’t asking her to pay for dinner. For others, their idea of a wealthy man is someone on the Forbes list of the wealthiest men in the world.

If this is you, you are not likely to find him through a dating website. That man meets women all the time without help.

If you think you can tolerate anything as long as a man has money, a dating service advertising WealthyLove.com might be an option for you.

However, your looks are important. Photos are used as introductions. You won’t be picked out of a line up of eager faces because of your personality. Your looks are what you are selling.

If a dating service is not for you, you’ll need an alternative method of finding a millionaire. Looking for ideas on the internet about where to find wealthy men, you’ll discover such suggestions as meeting a rich man by borrowing a pedigree dog and walking it in wealthy neighborhoods. Silly idea.

After you spend a couple of days traversing up and down the street, the only thing you’re likely to get is arrested. Either the neighbors are going to report a strange woman canvassing the street day after day, or they’re going to assume you’re a hooker.

As much as you’d like to believe it, wealthy men are not hanging out on the street waiting to meet women. They don’t judge women by the dogs they walk, and they don’t like women who pretend to be something they are not.

So how do you meet decent rich men? The simple answer is: go where they are.