WHEN IS THE MONEY NOT WORTH IT?

Drop the Money and Run

There are times when it doesn’t matter how much money he has. You’ll need to forget about it and run.If you find yourself in any of the following situations, ditch the rich guy. Don’t hesitate, don’t give it a second thought. Get out.

Here is a partial list of reasons why you should leave him:

• He’s violent.Even if he hasn’t touched you yet, if you see him mistreat his animals, his ex girlfriends or ex wives, his kids, his mother, his neighbors, business associates, or anyone else, get away from him. It doesn’t matter if he apologizes afterwards.It doesn’t matter if he says it was the alcohol that made him do it.It doesn’t matter what his excuse is.Get away.No amount of money is worth a black eye, broken teeth and cracked ribs.Besides, once you start to look like you’ve been beaten up, he’s not going to take you anywhere. Pretty dresses and jewelry never look fashionable on black and blue skin.
• He brandishes guns, knives, or other weaponry in a manner that is threatening.He has a fascination with items of torture or war and talks about how he’d like to use them.
• He has an alcoholic or drug habit that leads to his passing out, treating you badly, driving under the influence or other reckless behavior.
  If he insists that you keep up with his drinking or use drugs with him, get away. What may be fun and sociable in the beginning can quickly turn nasty. Pretty women become ugly women under the influence of heavy drug use. A car accident while he’s driving under the influence can leave you disfigured, crippled, or dead. Then no amount of money can help you, and you can be sure that he won’t be around to nurse you back to health.
• Sex is painful.If he’s a sadist (he gets pleasure from your pain) this is not a relationship that is going to last in the long run, unless possibly you’re a masochist. Men who use painful sex to control women do not really like women.They have underlying issues and you are bound to get hurt in more ways than one.You don’t want to land in the hospital with burns, mutilated genitals, slashes on your breasts, a disfigured face or any number of other unspeakable aggressive acts upon your body.
• He is HIV positive,  has Herpes, or other sexually transmitted diseases.Is the money worth death down the line? If your answer to that question is no, then stay away from men with AIDS or other untreated, contagious diseases that can compromise your health and your life.

No amount of money is worth the consequences of staying with a man who hurts you physically or emotionally.

If you stay with him because you can’t bear the thought of not having all the pretty things he buys for you, of not staying at lovely resorts, not eating at expensive restaurants, then ask yourself if you can bear the thought of being beaten, violated, disfigured or dead.

Those lovely beaches in Hawaii, the Bahamas or along the coast of France are not so fun if you can’t put on a bikini because your bruises are so extensive.A meal in the costliest restaurant in the world won’t taste very appealing if your throat is still raw from the gag he stuffed down it during your last sex encounter. A diamond bracelet doesn’t look stunning on wrists that have rope burns.

You will know when it is not right.Listen to the little voice inside you that warns of danger. Get out. Get out NOW.

PROTECT YOURSELF

You Need to Protect Your Health.

Rich men may not expect to use protection. They may be arrogant in their need to have sex the way they want it, and the way they want it is without condoms. Even rich men who frequent high paid prostitutes will expect them to ask other men to use a condom, but not with them.

A perfect example is the infamous Eliot Spitzer, the New York Governor who was nabbed during a federal wiretap of a high priced call girl ring. The prostitute he saw regularly, admitted that he insisted on not wearing a condom with her.

Such risky behavior is not uncommon. Rich men think the rules do not apply to them. But diseases do not discriminate between the rich and the poor.

Be aware that you can be exposed to sexually transmitted diseases. Some of the diseases that you can acquire are:

• BV – Bacterial Vaginosis
• Chlamydia
• LGV
• Gonorrhea
• Herpes, Genital
• HPV – Human Papillomavirus Infection
• PID – Pelvic Inflammatory Disease
• Syphilis
• Trichomoniasis

See a gynocologist on a regular basisHave a yearly pap test. If you have any unusual discharge, bleeding, itching, soreness or fishy smell in your vaginal area, don’t wait to see if it will go away. See a doctor as soon as possible.

If you have any of the above diseases, you, your rich guy and his partners will need to be treated at the same time, or all of you will be reinfected and can infect others. The consequences to your health not only in the short term, but in the long term can be serious if you do not seek treatment.

If that does not scare you enough to get medical care, realize that there is nothing sexy about vaginal soresl.