THE ODDS ARE GOOD THAT THE GOODS ARE ODD
Good looking men with money don’t usually have a hard time finding women to date. As a result, they certainly aren’t going to need, much less pay someone to find a woman for them.
But there are also lots of millionaires who are busy making money and don’t have the time or inclination to go looking for a date. It is much easier to page through the profiles of dozens of beautiful women and pick out the ones they like than to hang out in bars hoping to find a woman.
If you’re lucky, you’ll meet one of those
busy millionaires if you sign up at a “millionaires only” web dating service. If you’re unlucky, you’ll end up with the wealthy men who can’t get dates any other way.
Why can’t a millionaire easily get a date?
If a wealthy man can’t get a date it’s usually because there is something wrong with him, which is why he ends up at a dating website. But these online matchmakers also know something that no one likes to talk about…that a man with money will eventually get a woman no matter what his faults are, as long as she knows he has money. Which is why a dating website that advertises “
millionaire bachelors” will always attract women, even if the guys are a bit flawed.
Be aware then, that a dating website catering to “millionaires” might have some or all of the following clientele:
- Men who have something physically, socially, or mentally wrong with them
- Married men
- Men who aren’t rich
Men who have physical, social or mental problemsMen who have trouble getting dates might have unappealing characteristics
. You have to ask yourself, “How much am I willing to tolerate in order to be around wealth?” Are you willing to date men who are:
- Physically unattractive
- Handicapped or crippled
- Hygienically unclean
- Into extreme fetishes or compulsions
- HIV positive or have herpes
- Mean or controlling
- 70, 80, or 90 (They don’t call it “Sugar Daddies” for nothing.)
- Sick
- Socially inept
- Mentally unstable
- Want submissive women
Lots of men looking for partners are married.
If you have no moral issues with dating married men and think it doesn’t matter as long as he is rich, you must be prepared to be a temporary toy in his life. The fun is over when:
- He gets bored
- His wife finds out
- You become demanding
- You get tired of spending most of your time alone
- You frequently have to drop any plans you had for a last minute rendezvous with him
- It’s not as exciting as you thought it would be
Life with a
married man is not all fun and games. He is often not available, but he expects you to be ready and waiting when he does have time for you.
He plans on spending the holidays with his family and may not have time to get away to see you, but don’t think of flying home to see your family. He wants you available “just in case.” Many a lonely night will be spend waiting “just in case.”
If you don’t like it, just remember: his money, his rules.
You’re making a mistake if you believe he’s going to leave his wife for you.
Married men who secretly date other women rarely leave their wives. If they were going to do it, they would have done it already, so they wouldn’t have to sneak around. No matter how many times he tells you he loves you, and that you just have to be patient and give him some time, he isn’t going to leave his wife. You will discover too late that there will never be a good time for him to leave her.
He will have dozens of excuses:
- Wait until the kids are out of the house
- Wait until his finances are in order, so he doesn’t have to give her half of his fortune
- Wait until his sick wife is feeling better
Wait, wait, wait. On and on the excuses will come.
Don’t start with a married man and you won’t have to regret ending it. Remember, the more of your youthful years you give to a married man, the fewer years remain to find someone that is yours.
Are you thinking that dating a rich man would be worth it, even if you eventually break up? You may have acquired a few expensive things, but you are older, have a reputation for dating married men and for being a gold digger, who is willing to put up with anything for money. I can’t imagine any scenario where that is a good idea.
Unless he is putting thousands of dollars in an account for you to get yourself out of town and start over somewhere else, it is not worth the risk. You certainly aren’t going to easily find another rich man. Rich men don’t usually like dating other rich men’s discarded goods, especially women with negative reputations.
He could be lying about his wealth
If you have the looks and the stomach for unusual men, you still have to deal with the fact that many of the men who sign up with dating websites and matchmaking services, may not be wealthy.
Remember the show, “Who Wants to
Marry a Millionaire?” The lucky girl who won couldn’t stomach the guy for even their short “honeymoon.” They slept in separate rooms and she annulled the marriage as soon as she got back to town. Apparently his million wasn’t enough to entice her to stick around.
Even if the dating service claims to check out the background of the men who apply, IRS forms can be faked as well as bank statements and paychecks. In other words, there is no guarantee that he is who he says he is.
How much money makes a man “wealthy?”
Do you want a guy with a private jet who has homes in several countries, or will you settle for someone who
has a great job, a house and vacations in wonderful places? Do you want your jewelry from Tiffany’s and Cartier or will diamonds from the local jeweler suffice?
For some women, a wealthy man is anyone who has a job and isn’t asking her to pay for dinner. For others, their idea of a wealthy man is someone on the Forbes list of the wealthiest men in the world.
If this is you, you are not likely to find him through a dating website. That man meets women all the time without help.
If you think you can tolerate anything as long as a man has money, a dating service advertising WealthyLove.com might be an option for you.
However, your looks are important. Photos are used as introductions. You won’t be picked out of a line up of eager faces because of your personality. Your looks are what you are selling.
If a dating service is not for you, you’ll need an alternative method of finding a millionaire. Looking for ideas on the internet about where to find wealthy men, you’ll discover such suggestions as meeting a rich man by borrowing a pedigree dog and walking it in wealthy neighborhoods. Silly idea.
After you spend a couple of days traversing up and down the street, the only thing you’re likely to get is arrested. Either the neighbors are going to report a strange woman canvassing the street day after day, or they’re going to assume you’re a hooker.
As much as you’d like to believe it, wealthy men are not hanging out on the street waiting to meet women. They don’t judge women by the dogs they walk, and they don’t like women who pretend to be something they are not.
So how do you meet decent
rich men? The simple answer is: go where they are.
