How to hook up with a rich man?

First, be a classy woman. Millionaires can attract the most desirable women into their lives, just because of the resources they have.  Furthermore, you should be educated and speak good English. Tattoos are totally out of the question. Never wear imitation jewelry or dangling earrings. If you’re going to have pierced ears, only make it one hole and perhaps pearls with a small diamond, simpler the better. Real gold or platinum, nothing artificial. No artificial jewels either.

Don’t hang around at clubs or liquor establishments. This is where all the prowlers and singles are looking to hook up for casual sex flings. You should avoid these places, because men go there to hunt their prey women. Instead, go to an elegant restaurant that serves liquor, but right after work at 5:00 p.m. Choose a place where people are dressed nicer than just jeans and where attorneys, engineers and political figures like to frequent. Leave by 8:00 p.m. and go home. Go there every Friday night.

Other ways to attract a millionaire is to work on charity fund raisers and volunteer to be the chairperson. Also, you can work as a volunteer chairperson to have a fund raiser for a political  candidate. Attend these functions and donate to worthy causes, but it is better to actually be part of the committee of board of directors than plan the fund raisers and be the chairperson if you can. If you haven’t been solely in charge of a charity fund raiser, then volunteer to be an  assistant to the chairperson.

Most importantly, have your own life and interests. Don’t drop your circle of friends or your regular hobbies and interests and work, just because you meet a rich man. These men are very suspicious of women who may be using them and pretending love just for their money. They can spot a gold digger a mile away. Rich men seem to be draw to women who wear their hair up and do not dress too  sexy or revealing. No bright red nail polish and rather prefer french  manicured nails. Avoid vulgarity like the “f” word in every other sentence. Don’t cuss at all. It is not something that classy women or classy men like to hear and being vulgar all the time to express  yourself indicates you have a mentality of a 2 watt bulb. You should be good at writing business letters and good at expressing yourself in writing. If you’re not, take the appropriate courses.

Whatever you do, don’t be clingy or needy or be in awe because you see someone come to pick you up in a rolls royce. It is just like any other car as far as you’re concerned. Remember, rich people poop just the same as anyone else. Don’t be fooled into thinking that because they spent $1,000 dollars on you at dinner, they are madly in love with you.

Oh, there is another very important factor. Wait at least 1 year before you have sex with the man. Date but no sex, until you really get to know them. If you go too fast, the relationship will fizzle. They are used to women giving themselves to them too freely, and the ones that hold out will keep their attention and win them over. I did these things to men, because I came from a different era and women didn’t put out without the relationship being on their terms first. Too many women I see in public are dressing like sluts and drawing attention to themselves, and yes, you will attract horny men but not men that are looking at you as ‘long term wife material”. Men decide within 60 seconds of looking at you whether you are going to be categorized as  “casual sex only” or “long term wife material”. They do this unconsciously as part of the mating game.

Make sure you are a reliable person and by that I mean someone who pays their bills when due and keeps their word. Someone who has a good character and this is best demonstrated by the company you keep.

FIND RICH GUYS AT HEALTH CLUBS

A great way to meet a rich man and get healthy at the same time is to frequent expensive health clubs.  Don’t worry if you can’t afford a membership. You don’t need one.

Free Passes
Take advantage of the policy of most clubs to give out free day passes so you can try out their club.  You may have to listen to a spiel about their club and the benefits of joining, but you can always say that you’re looking around and will let them know if they pressure you to join.

If you live in a big city like New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, San Francisco or Miami, there is a health club on practically every corner.  You could go to a different club every week and not go back to the same one twice.

If you travel for business or pleasure, take advantage of the free day pass at the health clubs near your hotel.   Most clubs don’t like to give a free pass to someone from out of town.  (They know you’ll never join.) You may have to give a local address.

Late Morning is Best 
Although you’re guaranteed to meet men with money at expensive, exclusive health clubs, if there is not one in your area, or you’re not willing to travel, you can still meet wealthy men if you’re wise about the time you go to the health club.

Men with money don’t go to the health club early in the morning when the crowds go.  They also avoid the weekends when the working guys are clogging the clubs. The best time to meet the man with a luxury lifestyle is in the late morning or late afternoon from around 3 to 6pm.  That’s the time when the married men go home to their wives and the bachelors don’t have to be anywhere after work. 

If a man goes to a health club in the middle of the day, you can be sure that he can afford to be off of work in the middle of the day, or he probably doesn’t need to work at all.  (Don’t worry about meeting the guy who just got laid off.  He can’t afford the membership fees.)

Be Friendly
Once you’re in the club, the best way to meet people is to smile and be friendly.  Scope out the room.  See who’s on the treadmills, the stationary bikes, or the stair master.  If you see someone interesting, take the machine next to them.  Plan to work on that machine for 10 minutes. If during that time the guy next to you won’t engage in conversation or give you eye contact, move on. He’s probably married or otherwise unavailable.

It’s easy to talk to the person next to you in a health club.  Usually the machines are close together so you can strike up a conversation easily.  Don’t know what to say?  How about,  ”This is my first time here.  I’m not familiar with how this machine works.”  If he likes the way you look, he’ll jump at the chance to explain it to you.  If he seems annoyed at the intrusion, just say, “never mind, I’ll ask a trainer,” and move on.

Remember, your goal is to meet as many men as possible, quickly weeding out the married men and those not interested. Don’t expect wedding rings to clue you into who’s married and who is not.  Most men don’t wear their rings while they work out.  It’s uncomfortable.

How do you know he has money?
When he’s sweaty and in a t-shirt and gym shorts, how do you know the man has money?  Of course,  if he’s at an exclusive gym, he must have a decent income level, but it never hurts to gently and subtly quiz him. Keep the conversation light for a while; the headline news  on the TV is a good neutral opener.

But after you’re engaged in conversation for more than 1o minutes, you can easily ask, “How come you’re able to be in the club in the middle of the day?” or “Is this economy affecting your business?” Stay away from direct questions like, “What do you do for a living?”  Most men don’t like that and see it as gold digging.  

Eat your lunch at the club
Of course, if you don’t like to work out, you can always go to the health clubs that have food courts and just eat your lunch there.  The food is frequently  healthy and a social atmosphere prevails. Eating at exclusive health clubs is an easy way to avoid dealing with the club passes or the hard sell membership sales person.

WHEN IS THE MONEY NOT WORTH IT?

Drop the Money and Run

There are times when it doesn’t matter how much money he has. You’ll need to forget about it and run.If you find yourself in any of the following situations, ditch the rich guy. Don’t hesitate, don’t give it a second thought. Get out.

Here is a partial list of reasons why you should leave him:

• He’s violent.Even if he hasn’t touched you yet, if you see him mistreat his animals, his ex girlfriends or ex wives, his kids, his mother, his neighbors, business associates, or anyone else, get away from him. It doesn’t matter if he apologizes afterwards.It doesn’t matter if he says it was the alcohol that made him do it.It doesn’t matter what his excuse is.Get away.No amount of money is worth a black eye, broken teeth and cracked ribs.Besides, once you start to look like you’ve been beaten up, he’s not going to take you anywhere. Pretty dresses and jewelry never look fashionable on black and blue skin.
• He brandishes guns, knives, or other weaponry in a manner that is threatening.He has a fascination with items of torture or war and talks about how he’d like to use them.
• He has an alcoholic or drug habit that leads to his passing out, treating you badly, driving under the influence or other reckless behavior.
  If he insists that you keep up with his drinking or use drugs with him, get away. What may be fun and sociable in the beginning can quickly turn nasty. Pretty women become ugly women under the influence of heavy drug use. A car accident while he’s driving under the influence can leave you disfigured, crippled, or dead. Then no amount of money can help you, and you can be sure that he won’t be around to nurse you back to health.
• Sex is painful.If he’s a sadist (he gets pleasure from your pain) this is not a relationship that is going to last in the long run, unless possibly you’re a masochist. Men who use painful sex to control women do not really like women.They have underlying issues and you are bound to get hurt in more ways than one.You don’t want to land in the hospital with burns, mutilated genitals, slashes on your breasts, a disfigured face or any number of other unspeakable aggressive acts upon your body.
• He is HIV positive,  has Herpes, or other sexually transmitted diseases.Is the money worth death down the line? If your answer to that question is no, then stay away from men with AIDS or other untreated, contagious diseases that can compromise your health and your life.

No amount of money is worth the consequences of staying with a man who hurts you physically or emotionally.

If you stay with him because you can’t bear the thought of not having all the pretty things he buys for you, of not staying at lovely resorts, not eating at expensive restaurants, then ask yourself if you can bear the thought of being beaten, violated, disfigured or dead.

Those lovely beaches in Hawaii, the Bahamas or along the coast of France are not so fun if you can’t put on a bikini because your bruises are so extensive.A meal in the costliest restaurant in the world won’t taste very appealing if your throat is still raw from the gag he stuffed down it during your last sex encounter. A diamond bracelet doesn’t look stunning on wrists that have rope burns.

You will know when it is not right.Listen to the little voice inside you that warns of danger. Get out. Get out NOW.

RICH MEN AND KIDS

Rich Men Like Kids

Yes, it’s true, most rich men like kids. Their own, that is. What they are not hot about is taking on someone else’s kids. If you are looking for a millionarire, and you have children, you need to either be so beautiful and seductive that he would do anything to be with you, or your kids had better be pretty independent of you.

If your rich guy wants to take off for Paris in his Lear Jet, he doesn’t want to hear that you don’t have a babysitter for your kids. If he has plans for a romantic dinner, he may put up with “I’m sorry, I can’t go because I have a sick child,” once or twice.

But the more times your kids interfere with his plans, the faster he is quickly going to find someone who is available.

Don’t Get Rid of Your Kids.

Now this is not a suggestion that you get rid of your children, like Susan Smith who drowned her two because her new boyfriend didn’t want to take on someone else’s kids. What I’m saying is that you need to plan ahead of time as to how you are going to provide for them if you’re planning on spending time alone with a man who wants to be spontaneous.

Who is going to watch your children while you’re gone? Who will do homework, get them to school, make lunches and do laundry? Will whoever is helping you be flexible enough to stay longer if you don’t come back on time? Do they have a car to take them to lessons, games, practices and to the hospital in emergencies?

Be Able to Manage Your Household. Now let’s suppose you have your household under control. Your kids’ dad is willing to take them overnight on the spur of the moment; your mother doesn’t complain when you stay out late after you said you’d be home by 1am; your sister will take them to the park and make sure they have clean clothes when you’re too tired to get up after being out all night. After all that, now you have to deal with his kids.

Be Willing to Spend Time with His Kids. Your rich man may have made it clear through words or actions that he’s not interested in being around your kids, but he probably loves his own kids and may want them to be around you. It may not sound fair, but the reality is, the man with the money calls the shots.

So put on your happy face and be warm and welcoming to his kids. If they don’t like you, kids can sabotage a relationship. And don’t think you can fake it. Kids can spot a fake.

How to get his kids to like you.

• Learn about their interests
• Ask them questions
• Listen to what they say
• Be sincere in your comments to them

Very small children are usually accepting of most people, although they may be leery in the beginning. Remember they may have been through this with other women before. Ask to see their room, their favorite toy or read them a story. Sincere attention will eventually win over most little ones.

If you want to connect with a school-aged child, don’t ask pointed questions like, “How was school today?” or “What did you do at school today.” You’ll get one-word answers like: “Fine” or “Nothing.”

Ask open-ended questions instead. “So, who did something silly at school today?” or “Whom did you play with today?” and ask why he/she likes that person.

Learn about video games and ask about their favorite one. If kids think you are really interested, they will talk. If you push too hard, and don’t seem authentic, they’ll clam up.

Getting along with his kids can be trying, especially if they are teenagers. They have a mom and they don’t plan on letting you take her place. If their dad has been a bachelor for a long time, they’ve been through this scenario before. Their dad brings home some woman and expects them to like her and get along. They have meals with her, vacation with her and the next thing they know, she’s gone, and another woman is in her place.

Teenagers are not about to let you in easily. They will be suspicious of your motives. You have to earn their trust and friendship, and that takes time.

Learn to ignore bad attitude, rolled eyes and other expressions of exasperation. You will need to cope with disrespect, rudeness, bad manners, temper tantrums and possibly poor parenting on his part.

If there is conflict, learn to deal with it, because your rich guy doesn’t want to have to deal with it. He will just want the problem to go away, and you know he’s not going to get rid of his kids before he gets rid of you, even if you weren’t the cause of the problem in the first place.

Suppose you get lucky and find a rich man who loves your kids. Your kids, his kids, you’re all one happy family. At least that’s the way he’d like it to be. He wants everyone to spend time together and get along.Isn’t that nice?

The problem comes when your kids don’t like his spoiled kids. His kids think your kids are dorky. The kids are of different ages, or have different interests. They don’t want to get to know each other. They are not interested in one, big, combined, happy family.

Of course, you must realize that he expects you to fix that. He certainly won’t want to deal with it. Men generally leave the kids to the women, (Yes, even in this day of women’s lib and modern thinking.) Rich men are typically too busy or preoccupied to manage the problems of children so it will be up to you.

All of this leaves you with a dilemma.

How do you balance your children’s needs with his children’s needs and not become a doormat for his kids or an absent mother for your kids? If you can’t answer that question, then you need to take some parenting classes or read some books on the subject. There is plenty of parenting information to read on the Internet. You can also take parenting classes on-line. Parenting books are available from the public library. If you don’t like to read, get audio tapes.

Suggested reading material:

Elizabeth Pantley’s book, The No-Cry Discipline Solution is practical with lots of tidbits for quick solutions to problems.

Get Out of My Life, but First Could You Drive Me & Cheryl to the Mall: A Parent’s Guide to the New Teenager, by Anthony E. Wolf is good for managing teenagers.

Parenting classes can be found in most cities through your community’s social services, through your pediatrician, your YMCA, the local Parks and Recreation Programs, or on the internet.

The manner in which you conduct yourself with his kids will say a lot about you. You are either going to come across as someone who is there temporarily for his good time, or someone who might be a life partner and who can successfully handle his kids and yours.

PROTECT YOURSELF

You Need to Protect Your Health.

Rich men may not expect to use protection. They may be arrogant in their need to have sex the way they want it, and the way they want it is without condoms. Even rich men who frequent high paid prostitutes will expect them to ask other men to use a condom, but not with them.

A perfect example is the infamous Eliot Spitzer, the New York Governor who was nabbed during a federal wiretap of a high priced call girl ring. The prostitute he saw regularly, admitted that he insisted on not wearing a condom with her.

Such risky behavior is not uncommon. Rich men think the rules do not apply to them. But diseases do not discriminate between the rich and the poor.

Be aware that you can be exposed to sexually transmitted diseases. Some of the diseases that you can acquire are:

• BV – Bacterial Vaginosis
• Chlamydia
• LGV
• Gonorrhea
• Herpes, Genital
• HPV – Human Papillomavirus Infection
• PID – Pelvic Inflammatory Disease
• Syphilis
• Trichomoniasis

See a gynocologist on a regular basisHave a yearly pap test. If you have any unusual discharge, bleeding, itching, soreness or fishy smell in your vaginal area, don’t wait to see if it will go away. See a doctor as soon as possible.

If you have any of the above diseases, you, your rich guy and his partners will need to be treated at the same time, or all of you will be reinfected and can infect others. The consequences to your health not only in the short term, but in the long term can be serious if you do not seek treatment.

If that does not scare you enough to get medical care, realize that there is nothing sexy about vaginal soresl.

HOW TO KEEP A MILLIONAIRE HAPPY

Marrying a millionaire has its pluses. You have the lifestyle of the rich and famous. You have no worries about debts, no stresses of a job. But there are also some negative issues that come with a man with money.

What If You Don’t Love Him?There is an saying that a woman can fall in love with a rich man as easily as a poor one. True. But what do you do if you don’t love the millionaire who wants you? Do you date him anyway? Do you marry him? It happens all the time. Women give up love in exchange for money. Some women are comfortable with this. It’s a bargain they gladly make for the privilege of being rich.

If money is your love, then don’t expect love with your money. If by chance love and money come together with one man, you are a lucky girl.

An affair is not the answer

The problem comes when you find another guy that you do love, but don’t want to give up the money.Many women in this position think that they will just have a quiet affair. When your millionaire is busy at work or out of town, you decide to take the opportunity to see your love interest. No one will know. No one gets hurt. Right?

Not to be the bearer of bad news, but this is a bad idea.

Your millionaire has lots of friends in lots of places. He has friends you don’t even know about. If you try to sneak around with your love interest, the neighbors, the mailman, the doorman, even the paperboy or the UPS man might see you and say something to your rich guy. You never know who’s watching.

If you go to a hotel or the home of your love interest, there is always the chance that someone will see you together. If you go to an out of the way restaurant, out of town or even out of the country with him, you’re still bound to get caught.

Ask yourself, how many times have you been someplace unusual and unexpectedly run into someone you knew. Too often. The quickest way to get dumped by a rich man is to get caught with another man.

“Men play the game, women know the score.”

Roger Woddis

Millionaires Cheat

Now that you’ve resigned yourself to being faithful, he’ll probably cheat on you. It’s the old double standard. He expects you to be faithful to him, but he will most likely cheat on you. If you don’t believe this, you don’t know much about men and very little about men with money.

Men with money and status want it all. They want their fancy cars and expensive toys. They want to feel important and admired. They love attention, and they love it from beautiful women. And as you know, there is no shortage of women who are willing to give a rich man some attention.

“God gave men both a penis and a brain,
but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time.”

Robin Williams

The temptation for a rich man to cheat is always present.

Wherever a rich man goes, there is some woman hoping to replace you and she is going to try her cutest, sweetest, most seductive best to nab his attention.

Even if he is not looking for someone new, eventually the sex with you is going to be the same, and the excitement for what men call “strange” sex will grow. ( “strange sex” does not mean weird sex, but sex with a new partner.)

His need for something different doesn’t necessarily mean that you are history.

He may genuinely care for you, but that affection is compartmentalized, not thought about when it comes to sex. He may want his occasional “strange sex” in addition to you, so you need to be willing to put up with those terms without a scene, without resentment, without attitude. Ask yourself if you’re capable of that.

If you give up love for money, you have to keep your heart to yourself.

There’s always a willing womanBe aware that there are many women who have no problem putting up with a cheating man if he has enough money. If you make a scene and cause a big enough problem in his life, he can just replace you with the next woman in line. Don’t kid yourself into believing that no one can replace you.

There is always someone younger, more eager to please, more sexually adventuresome and more willing to do anything to be with a rich man. Eventually he will take the bait.

WHAT DO RICH MEN WANT?

GIVE THE MAN WHAT HE WANTS

What do rich men want?

If your answer is sex, you are right in one respect. Yes, all men want sex. But sex flows freely to a man with money. If your body is your only card on the table, you haven’t got much to offer. When he’s tired of the sex with you, he’ll be moving on.

Don’t be naive and think that you’re good in bed and that will hold him. No matter how good you are, some other woman can be just as satisfying, just as inventive and men get bored with the same woman over and over again. There’s a term that men use called “strange sex.” It’s doesn’t mean that the sex is strange, it’s sex with astranger that’s exciting.

No matter how many times he tells you that it is the best sex he ever had, eventually he will get the urge to move on.

“For every beautiful woman there is some guy who is tired of fucking her.”

-Eddie Murphy

Qualities Men Want in Their Woman

So what keeps a man’s attention? Well, every man has a different wish list. But the more qualities you have, the more likely you are to attract the right guy and be able to hold his attention.

1.  Beauty

Don’t think you only need to be beautiful in order to get a rich man. Attracting a guy with your looks is only half the challenge. If you don’t have the other qualities that he’s looking for, well, he’ll look, sample, and walk away. Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as anyone knows who has been dumped by a guy only to find that he is dating someone less attractive.

Some men like their women skinny with large breasts, others like their women round with big hips. Some men like athletic bodies that are hard and muscled while others like soft, squishy flesh.  For every size woman, there is a man who likes her just the way she is.

However, you are more likely to catch a man if your body type is more towards the norm. Try to stay within normal weight limits, give or take a few pounds. Being physically fit is most important.

If you need to lose some weight or get in shape, sign up for a gym membership and use it!  If you can’t afford it, there is always the pavement.  Hit it every day whether you’re walking or running.

Make sure your skin is clear.  See a dermatologist if you need to clear up acne or other skin problems. Be sure your pores are clean. If you can’t afford a salon facial, do it yourself.

Don’t overly tan yourself and avoid uneven skin color.  If you have sunspots, they can easily be treated by liquid nitrogen at your dermatologist or by topical preparations from the drugstore.

2.  Have a sweet personality

Having a sweet personality does not mean that you are a pushover. It means that you have a smile that surfaces easily; you don’t let a lot of things bother you; you genuinely like people and respond to them kindly. Being sweet means being compassionate towards others, staying open to different viewpoints without being harshly opinionated, and staying pleasant when everyone else is losing his temper. Sounds impossible, doesn’t it? But that’s what men want.

But doesn’t it seem like it’s the bitches who are getting the men?  Getting them maybe.  Keeping them is another story.

A woman who is strong in her sense of self, not critical of others, and forgiving when things go wrong, is an asset. Look around you.  Watch and see whom others admire.  Ask yourself why they are admired and then copy those traits.

3.  Be able to hold a conversation about things of interest to him

In order to carry on an interesting conversation, you must have interesting ideas in your head. You need to read books and not just fiction. You need to be able to hold up your end of the conversation or at least be knowledgeable about a variety of topics. You will find that common people talk about other people. The upper class talk about ideas, politics, and current events.

Of course, most people also indulge in gossip at some point or another, but you should not. It looks shallow, small minded, and petty. Nothing cools a connection faster than a woman who has nothing to say except gossip. Can you talk about more things than what Brittney Spears or Paris Hilton did last night? If you don’t read the newspaper or the news online, start. If you don’t subscribe to a national magazine, like Newsweek or Time Magazine, get it now. If you can’t afford it, read it at the library.

You need to be aware of national issues, politics, current affairs, and other topics of interest. Reading People Magazine does not count.

4.  Know how to cook

You may think this is not serious since wealthy people eat out frequently. But it is on the wish list of many bachelors. They want to be able to stay home and have a home cooked meal. They want their wives to be able to cook for friends and business associates. They want traditional holiday meals with all the trimmings. Ordering in or going out to dinner gets tiring after a while and a man wants to be able to enjoy his own home.

If you can’t cook, get yourself a beginner cookbook, or take a class and learn. There’s no excuse for not knowing how to use an oven.

5.  Have the ability to get along with his family and friends.

Do you like people? Are you able to get along with different kinds of people? Can you walk into a room full of strangers and find something of interest to talk about? If you can not do these things, learn. Read the book by Dale Carnegie, “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” It’s a great way to learn how to get along with others, even if you don’t think alike.

Getting along with people is an important trait if you are planning on dating rich men. Why? Because so much of what they do involves people. Most men do not become successful on their own. They have a huge support system of friends, business associates, employees, and family members that are a major part of their lives.

If you can’t get along with them, you will be seen as a drag on his life rather than an asset. If you are friendly and easily get a long with a variety of people, he will be drawn to you.

6.  Take an interest in his hobbies.

Men love their hobbies whether it’s basketball, fishing, skydiving or playing video games, and they want you to love what they love. There is an instant disconnect when a man is talking about his favorite team and he hears, “I hate football,” from the woman. If you don’t like sports, learn to like them. Learn how the major games of basketball, football and baseball are played and who the important players are.

When the conversation turns to sports, be able to contribute to the topic at hand instead of sitting on the sidelines.

7.  A sense of humor

Every man says he wants a woman with a sense of humor, but what exactly does that mean? It means he wants you to laugh at his silly jokes, even when it’s the 50th time he’s told it.  He wants you to think it’s funny when he gets drunk, and he wants you to laugh it off when he says something stupid to your mother.

You’ll know when you missed his sense of humor when he says, “Lighten up. I was only being funny.”

8.  Patience and tolerance

If you are not a patient person, don’t think about dating wealthy men. Successful men usually put themselves first, their business second and their women third. You might come first for a few weeks, but after a while… If you don’t believe this, you’re in for a big disappointment. If he’s late for your dates, forgets a special occasion, doesn’t take your call immediately, or breaks an appointment with you to do something else, it’s all part of being in a rich man’s life.

You will also need to tolerate phone calls that interrupt your romantic times, your vacations, your dinners and your sex life. Wealthy men usually have several things going on in their lives at one time. If you can not tolerate his obnoxious business associate who hustles you, his neighbor who calls you a gold digger, his ex wife who snubs you or his dog who slobbers all over you, then you are not the kind of person who should consider dating wealthy men.

If rich is what you want, make patience your middle name.

9.  An ability to socialize

Social events are a staple in a rich man’s world. Be it charity events, business dinners, or relaxing with friends, you will be expected to socialize with people of different ages and backgrounds than you. Not only must you have the gift of delightful conversation and the ability to put strangers at ease,  your manners must be impeccable.

If you’re not sure about your manners, get an updated etiquette book and read it from cover to cover. Some good ones are: Emily Post’s Etiquette, 17th Edition by Peggy Post or Etiquette For Dummies by Sue Fox

10.  An appreciation of his time and generosity

No matter what he does for you, be grateful. The smallest gesture should be noticed and appreciated. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is expecting a lot, but appreciating little.

11.  A willingness to try new things
A healthy attitude for life is necessary when dating rich men. You must be willing to try new foods, go to new countries, meet people of different cultures and learn other languages. A love of learning is necessary to keep your mind fresh and him interested. If that sounds like a lot, understand that wealthy men can have almost any woman they want. If he wants you to learn to sail or sky dive, you should be ready and willing.

You need to be able to stand out from the crowd. You want your rich bachelor to not only notice you and ask you out, but you want him to be interested enough to keep you around for a long time.