10 Tips To Keep In Mind In Dating A Millionaire

1. Make sure that before you say “yes” to date a millionaire you are genuinely attracted to that person through your initial communications whether through text messages, emails, calls or exchange of photos. If you are just dating the person for money it’s not going to work. You will never be happy. You are just being unfair to yourself and the other person. Sooner or later your motive becomes transparent to the other person. Trust is then lost. Your integrity will be questioned. You don’t want that to happen.

2. Mind your manners. Being with a millionaire means you have to know how to say the right words at the right time, know how to act in social settings and most importantly know how to dress appropriately. * SAY THE RIGHT WORDS – Don’t forget your “PLEASE” and “THANK YOU” – Give him/her genuine compliments – Speak clearly and modulate the tone of your voice to show confidence but never yell * HOW TO ACT IN SOCIAL SETTINGS – Review “TABLE MANNERS” (if you are not confident of your table manners, it is very important that you read some books or articles on table manners including table setting) – Know when to start a conversation and when it is preferable to just listen and be attentive. – Be polite in your actions and words. – Act and speak with decency. * DRESS APPROPRIATELY – Ask your date where and when you meet to be sure you are appropriately dress. – Dress with simplicity and class. – Avoid clothes that shows more than 30% skin. – FOR WOMEN: Don’t show any cleavage especially on your first date. Sure you want to catch his attention but you don’t want to get wrong impression. – Dress in classy colors (most millionaire’s appreciate conservative colors like white, black, gray, or earth colors).

3. Be smart. Try to engage in an intellectual conversation with your date. Millionaire’s want to have a smart partner that they can count on for advice in times of need. They want a partner whom they can depend and trust in giving them support especially when they need to make important decisions.

4. Be updated with current events. If you are not the type who checks on the news daily, you need to start doing it if you want to have a successful relationship with a millionaire. Better start getting interested on current events before starting to date a millionaire if you want to catch up with your date.

5. Learn and get interested in Arts. Know the famous painters and their works. Know about the most interesting artworks. Millionaires are often into collecting the works of famous and great artists.

6. Learn more about gourmet food. Learn about the interesting cuisines in the world. Most millionaires are business people. They often entertain business partners. If you have knowledge on gourmet food or excellent places to dine, you will be helpful to them and will surely be appreciated.

7. Educate yourself about wines. Having knowledge on quality wines and liquor is a plus. Again, millionaires often entertain business partners. They want suggestions from people they know. You will be a good catch for your millionaire date if you are pretty knowledgeable on food and wine.

8. Be interesting by knowing great places to travel. Know about the history of famous tourist destinations in the world. Know about it’s culture, people, food and the exciting places to see in such locations. Millionaires travel a lot either for business or pleasure. Having sufficient knowledge on places most frequently traveled will surely impress your date. You can educate him/her as well.

9. Be truly interested on your date. You may have great looks, excellent knowledge on things that catches a millionaires interest but if you are not sincerely interested he/she will know it. Show your date that you want to know him/her more. Ask questions that allows the person to talk about himself/herself. Listen attentively when he/she speaks. Ask follow up questions. It shows that you are interested.

10. Don’t bring up any financial issues. Don’t ask your date about his/her earnings nor his/her possessions. You will look like a gold digger if you do so. You will seem to be more interested on what your date has to offer rather than knowing the person and knowing if you are compatible with each other.

BE YOURSELF! BE CONFIDENT!

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How to Date Older Men with Millionaire Matchmaker

Looking for a truly mature partner who is successful, rich, and elder than you? Here are some tips for you dating older men who are more than mature and successful in their business. Many older men tend to be more confident, more successful and more thoughtful than their younger counterparts, and they know how to treat a woman well. But, how to date those rich older men?
The elderly tend to be more reserved in public, but more demonstrative in private. In other words, if your man did not want to kiss you at every street corner, don’t care about that. Generally, older men seldom demonstrate  affection in public – holding Your Hand, or embracing gently. On the other hand, most of them are affectionate in the private, they are confident and they know how to show their feelings correctly and treat you like a lady.
While young men may be flattered when you have some good words for them, but elder men may not. For them, you need to show yourself as an independent woman. You have your own life, and you have your own interesting things, and you have your own friends circle, and you have your everything independent so that you don’t need to be baby-sitted by them.
Never make your relationship mixed with sex. If you have a millionaire match who is much older than yourself, you will soon see a difference in your sex life. Tips for dating older men: Older men are looking for companionship first, sex is not the most important thing for them. If you can’t understand this, you will have troubles. Relaxing, sharing interesting things would be great for the companion life. However, this doesn’t mean that sex is not important in their lives. Sometimes it should be great too. Many of the elder wealthy guys have learned a lot in their past experiences, and they may spend more time on satisfying their partners. The only thing is sex is not the most important part in their lives.
Date old men is a Gold Diggers Date? You may have read some tips for dating older men in some other places that the relationship with an older man is essentially a gold digger relationship. But that’s not the truth for all. Talked with many women who have relationships with elder men and discovered that the companionship is the most fantastic thing in their relationships. The successful, wealthy, elder men are confident, secure and comfortable with themselves.

With the above mentioned tips, you should be able to date a great gentleman who is older than you. Just go ahead and enjoy your successful, long-term relationship which will be fulfilling for both of you.

The Millionaire Matchmaker’s Top Tips to Finding True Love Online

Photographer Randee St. Nicholas

Last week, Patti Stanger, The Millionaire Matchmaker host and author, came to New York City to talk about her sake company, Ty Ku. But this time of year can be especially difficult for singles looking to couple up, so TV’s most outspoken yenta also gave us her insider tricks to finding true love online.

1. “Your picture is the most important thing. Period.”

Stanger suggests you splurge on a professional photo if you can. Winning poses include the red-carpet twist for gals—”a little black dress always gets the guy,” she claims—and a straight-on, casual-fun, jeans-and-a-blazer (or button-down) look for fellas. “Stop putting those crazy pictures of you jumping out of planes or in a giant concert crowd; we can’t see you!” she says. If you’re tempted to put kids or pets in the picture: Don’t. “Even if it’s your niece, users will automatically assume you have kids. That isn’t necessarily a turn off, but this is about luring your mate.” As for Fido, Stanger advises, “If you really love animals, go to a nice dating site for pet lovers.” Lastly, crop out your best friend from your profile photo if that’s your favorite pic of you. “If he or she is hotter, you’re in trouble!”

2. “Give yourself a memorable name.”

Instead of just your name or initials, make your username descriptive. “Try something that says who you are with a little sexy note, that’s fun and flirty. But make sure you don’t put the word ‘sex’ in there. If you lead with that, you’re only going to find someone who is looking for something casual,” Stanger says.

3. “Use clear, but coded, language.”

Looking for marriage? “If you say it outright on your profile, people assume you’re a gold digger, or they get turned off,” Stanger explains. “Try, ‘I’m a one woman kind of guy,’ ’I want to grow old with my soul-mate,’ or ‘I want to open my heart and share my life with someone.’” Looking for something less committed? “Say ‘I’m just looking for fun,’” she continues. “It’s not fair to waste people’s time when they are looking for something serious.”

4. “Yes, it’s okay to lie about your age—the right way.”

“Everyone knows if you’re 50, you’ll say 45, because if you put 50 you won’t come up on a search for fortysomethings,” says Stanger. “It’s fine to lie about your age by up to five years. But, this is what you do: If you meet and have chemistry, by the second or third date say, ‘I need to tell you this one thing that might be a turn-off, but…’ and come clean. Anybody who is worth keeping won’t mind. Who knows, they might have a confession for you as well!” Where else can you fib? “Men lie about height, women lie about weight. Women know they need to take two inches off a man’s listed height, and men know to add about 15 pounds to a woman’s listed weight. Unless she’s Superwoman!”

5. “Message him first, especially if the site thinks you’re a match.”

Stanger strongly believes that more women should take advantage of reaching out to men through private messaging on dating sites, especially when the site indicates there might be chemistry between the two of you. If you’re not sure how to start, Stanger advises you refer to the site as a friend who introduced you. “Say, ‘The system says we’re a match, wink wink…’” she says. However, if you don’t get any response, go on to the next guy.

6. “Facebook-stalking will get you nowhere.”

You probably don’t want to do too much if any Googling before your dates, and Stanger says to skip Facebook and Twitter, because they reveal too much of a person’s casual side. “Everybody’s Facebook page has things they don’t want to be judged for! Maybe it’s smoking cigars with the guys, or maybe it’s before you lost 25 pounds.” She thinks too much pre-date research will unnecessarily stress you out. But, she often advises clients to do a quick perusal on LinkedIn to see if prospects are lying about basic information like employment.

7. ”Sign up for at least three sites.”

To make the most of your odds, Stanger suggests you play the numbers by going broad, then narrow. “The first should be WealthyLove.com. People who use pay sites like Match are serious about finding relationships. The second should be a niche site, such as J-Date, or MillionaireMatch. Then, third, sign up for a free site like OkCupid or Plenty of Fish.” With such a range, you’re likely to increase your odds of meeting more interesting people who will ultimately connect you to what you want.

8. “Don’t become addicted to finding love.”

True story: Stanger has had clients who lost their jobs over their addiction to checking their profiles and prospects while at work. She tells clients to reserve online dating as a special experience, by dimming the lights at home, uncorking a bottle of wine, and playing fun music. Stanger also cautions against only using the computer to find a match, and not working it through friends, at the gym, chance encounters…the list goes on. “The secret is to use as many methods available as possible to meet people,” she says.

9. “Be nice to everyone.”

Your mom probably said this too, and Stanger backs it up. “If you go on a date with someone and he or she turns out to be a total dud—or worse, downright obnoxious—they may have a friend for you! Good looking, successful, funny people hang out with similar types. The best way to meet a guy is through a referral; before you know it, you’re six degrees-ing it. Dating online opens up so many possibilities for offline.”

10. “Cheer up if you don’t have good luck.”

Stanger is relentlessly positive. “Don’t be depressed if the first few dates are bad. Don’t be upset if the wrong people are picking you. Just redo your profile to get better matches. The secret is to get out of your own way!”